A Life Saver in the Waves of Autumn Mood
Visiting A Sex Shop for Toys
The door opens slowly, an extremely embarrassed woman walk into the shop, and avoiding the look of the shop assistant, shrinking up, studies the products by quick glimpses and then scurries away, pushing another visitor…
In the safety of the street, she looks back guiltily and promises herself to never, never, NEVER ever!!! go back to this awful place.
And the pleasant-looking shop assistant watches her go sadly, having missed another opportunity to tell the shopper about very exciting things she is most likely in need of.
As You have guessed, this "awful place" is a sex shop. And the picture is painfully familiar.
How do You muster up Your courage to walk inside?
First, by changing Your perspective on this kind of shops. Shop assistants in good sex shops get training. They have a lot of useful relevant information to share, and they are very eager to do that. They do it delicately and professionally.
And if You approach them with a question – You can get a real workshop, and for free. However, most of women shoppers don’t take the risk of asking questions, and shop assistants don’t get a chance to give their valuable advice.
Start by attending two or three upscale erotic boutiques just to talk to shop assistants. You’ll have such an exciting time that You’ll be surprised!
To feel more confident, You can take a friend along and ask shop assistants meticulously about new offers, the most popular ones, or just what catches Your eye.
And if You’re tempted to buy something, follow a few simple tips
1. Make sure You see the product out of its packaging, have it switched on and demonstrated.
2. Check whether You fancy the smell and the material.
3. If the batteries are non-standard (which occurs quite often at sex shops) – ask for a spare set and inquire where You can buy them.
4. Ask for details of maintenance and storage.
5. And, what’s most important, listen to Your body: if it tightens when You’re looking at the toy – don’t waste Your money; but if You get a pleasant aching in Your lower abdomen – even if You don’t know what’s it about exactly, take it. It will definitely come in handy!!!
And be sure that the shop assistant will be delighted to help You and be very grateful for getting a chance to finally share his/her knowledge!
An important requirement for a great visit to a sex shop
You need to have at least an idea of what might come in handy to You. Here You can have three groups: what You must have; what might be good just for fun; and what You can spare.
1. The essentials
!! !! !! To start with, You need to buy a cigar-shaped thin vibrator made of plastic, metal or silicon. What for? For simple… stimulation of Your vagina.
When we go to the masseur’s, we need at least 10 sessions to melt our body and make it soft and relaxed. Soft and sensual vagina is even more important, but we keep forgetting about it, and who will massage it for hours?
That’s when a vibrator comes to help. It’s small enough to reach the farthest corners and massage them.
You make Yourself comfortable, put on music and for 15-20 minutes massage the front, back and sides of Your vagina without intending to orgasm, just for massage, for the blood flow, for increasing its sensitivity. And, what’s most important, breathe deeply through Your mouth, lowering Your breath to the vagina and filling it with energy.
After two-three weeks of this massage You’ll be feeling a world of difference!
!! ! !! Another necessity in a woman’s treasure chest is a G spot vibrator. The G spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, which is closer to the pubic bone.
And finding it is really easy – in a state of slight arousal, after having one-two cups of warm tea, find a spot on Your front wall that gives You an urge to… pee when pressed!!! That’s it!
This vibrator has a slightly curved end that facilitates stimulating the G-spot. At the shop check that it’s the head that vibrates, not the base.
And breathing deeply through Your mouth, enjoy stimulating the G-spot, opening it up and making it more sensitive.
!! !! Simple double vaginal balls on a string come third. Without knobs or vibrations, made of simple plastic or silicon.
So what do You do with them? You must have heard a lot about squirting orgasm (You can watch it in Stephane Hemon’s video "Feminine Orgasm Mastery"). During this orgasm the vaginal muscles move as if they are pushing something out, and in the meantime the urethra is shooting with transparent fluid.
And the more intense these muscles move, the sweeter Your orgasm. And double vaginal balls have been tailor-made to train these movements.
You apply a little lube, put the balls into Your vagina with the string outside and, squatting or sitting, push the balls out as You exhale, inflating Your belly and opening the vagina outwards. You can pull the string a little, helping Your body.
Don’t be surprised if You become aroused – Your body will move the way it does during orgasm! Enjoy Your training!
!!! It’s a good idea to buy a phallus imitator without vibrations on a sucker the same size as Your man’s penis or a little smaller (that way You’ll have sweeter experience with Your man). With it You can train the motions of Your vaginal muscles: sit down on it and start pushing it out like in the previous exercise with the balls. Try this movement later on the man and get ovation!
!! You can buy a vibrator for Your butt. But mind an important thing: You will be able to remove whatever You put inside Your vagina, but as for the anus – You might need the assistance of a nurse, as the anus is very "avid" and sucks in everything.
That’s why make sure every toy for Your anus has a flared base to prevent its getting sucked in and to have Your head free. That’s why they are called "anal probes" or "plugs".
And another important point – first You can buy a small anal probe that vibrates, after that a little bigger than Your man’s penis, so You’ll get maximum pleasure with Your man.
It’s very important to relax Your butt – the more relaxed it is, the more pleasure we get from sex. And You’d better start from Yourself: first, Your finger in the shower, then a small vibrator and, finally, with a man.
How do You train? Apply plenty of lube and start pushing, that is moving Your butt naturally. And insert very, very slowly.
So nothing will hurt!!! It turns into pleasant internal massage that’s good for You. Enjoy!
! And talking about necessities, You can buy water-based lube for Your vagina and silicon-based lube (it lasts longer, it doesn’t dry up, unlike water-based lube) for anal sex.
2. For fun
!! !! Welcome an absolute favorite – a remote control vibrating love egg. You insert it inside Your vagina and give the remote control to… Your man! And go to Your friends’ or to the cinema.
The man turns into a child, looking for moments when switching on vibration is out of the question – and that’s when he does it! You’ll be bathing in attention from him!
Just be careful not to sit on the firm surface, if somebody is already sitting there – the sound can’t be heard, but the vibration is sensed very well. And this love egg will spice up a bleak autumn day at work and add more fun to it!
!!! And when You get to enjoy anal sex, You can fetch anal beads and small-sized anal probes without vibration. Why? We insert an anal probe in the butt with some lube before intercourse and… forget about it.
During orgasm the muscles inside Your butt contract, too, and if something is in the way of this contraction – sensations get much more intense! Try holding a finger in Your butt during orgasm – You won’t want to do without it afterwards!
Anal beads are meant differently: You insert them into Your butt with some lube (or Your partner does it for You, or You for him) and during orgasm pull them out one by one, stimulating the sphincter – entrance to the anus. Sensations are slightly different, but also very pleasant!
!! You can pamper Your loved one with vibrators for oral sex. It’ either a vibrating rubber cap for the tongue (but You need to hold it to prevent it from slipping off) or a special device that is fixed at Your ear like a microphone, and the vibrating part is lowered in a curve under Your tongue (try it on in the shop to make sure it’s not too tight).
But You can do it easier – keep the vibrator under Your tongue and caress the man with Your vibrating tongue! And, of course, waterproof vibrators for sensual spa at home and in the bath…
3. What You can spare
I think double vaginal vibrating balls are totally useless. The cord won’t let them go far, and to have an enjoyable walk a remote control love ball will do better.
Don’t waste Your money on breast and clitoral pumps – there’s a risk of going too far and getting microtraumas of vessels.
Don’t risk with anything You need to take internally to enhance arousal – better breathe deeply through Your mouth – the effect is the same, but totally safe.
Clitoral "butterflies" of all kinds that are fixed like panties. They might be good for doing housework though – it’ll be more fun! You can’t go outside, as they are too big and the vibration is heard, and to caress clitoris at home a simple vibrator will do.
Big rotating vibrators – You will give Yourself much more pleasure with a simple vibrator, feeling what kind of motions Your vagina craves.
And another small nuance – how to present it to the man?
Don’t display all Your collection to him at once. Just mention during a conversation: “Imagine, honey, a friend’s husband found a vibrator at home and kicked up such a fuss!” and see how he reacts. If he says: “What a fool!” be sure to bring out Your treasures. But if his reaction is “He did right!”, You’ll have to hide them. The best place is among intimate feminine paraphernalia where men seldom look.
As You might have seen, sex shops store plenty of treasures; the most important thing is to get what You need at the moment by asking straightforward questions to shop assistants, and to fall in love with the trophy You will take away from the shop.
And then it will give You unforgettable hours of bliss and let You create an island of happiness and warmth in the ocean of autumn coolness and slight melancholy...
With Love, Your Maria Shitova
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© 2012 Maria Sñhitova
