Secrets of Love Espionage
How to tell a great lover from a distance...
and taking a closer look
Two beautiful women were sharing their experience:
“Good lovers are hard to find”, one of them was saying,
“from one hundred men I had only four stand out!”
“Oh really”, said the other in disbelief, -
“from thirty men I had more than half were real diamonds!
I have a gut feeling about them and never miss a single one!”
Sounds improbable? However, it’s not make believe, and You can learn to tell a good lover at first glance!!! How? Here’re a few simple tips.
1. The body never lies. A man can tell all kinds of stories about himself, but if You take a close look at his body once, You will see things clearly without any words!
First, look the man into the EYES. They have to be LIVELY.
If they radiate love, attention, warmth, kindness, interest, if the man seems to be "touching" You with his eyes – he’ll treat both You and Your feelings kindly during sex.
If the eyes are "glassy", watching without seeing, if You get a sense that they are empty – this robot will likewise feel nothing during sex. He will just perform the proper set of motions from his head, not from his heart.
2. By all means pay attention to... the man’ HIP! It has to be relaxed, "live", as if slightly dancing – that’s the kind of hip where energy is moving; it means the man experiences physical pleasure and stays in his body rather than in his head.
When a man’s hip is tense, as if he is holding a coin between his buttocks, pleasurable gentle and smooth hip movements become impossible; the hip joint seems to be welded to the lower back, and the man is only capable of thrusting his pelvis.
Besides, when the hip is tense, the penis becomes a lot less sensitive, just its head retains some sensitivity – that’s why he needs to increase the pace so he could feel something.
When the hip joint is relaxed, has a wide range of motion, and moves separately from the lower back, the whole penis becomes sensitive, and the man gets pleasure just from being inside a woman or from doing slow, lush motions.
And overall a man’s motions need to be smooth, catlike – it’s a sign of his ability to stay in his body and feel pleasure. Jerky movements and poor coordination indicate his inability to feel his body – so how will he feel You?
3. Pay attention to the man’s HANDS. They need to be... WARM! It indicates that the man’s energy is moving from the centre outwards, that he has a "hot" heart. Cold hands mean low energy level, repressed energy inside the body. So this man will hardly be capable of sharing anything with You.
4. A sense of humor is also a good sign! It will always bring relief to difficult situations, and laughter also relaxes the diaphragm, which enables one to feel more.
5. The man is a good conversationalist. Usually the ability to listen, get and UNDERSTAND the other applies to all the areas of life.
6. The man is consistent in all his actions. By watching him in one context You can easily get to know him in others. Watch the man, for example, handle the dishes – GENTLY, carefully, cups don’t clatter – that’s how he will be treating Your body.
Watch him cook. Once I was admiring a man butchering a chicken – gracefully, taking his time and very skillfully, without a single odd movement! In sex he also turned out to be a great lover!
The way a man eats will tell You a lot about him. JUICILY, deliciously, savouring his food, or devouring everything promiscuously, unconcerned about its quality; eating tasty and healthy foods or being a picky eater, going for all kinds of frills – You’ll be surprised to find coincidences!
Watch how the man treats cats and dogs – an ability to get on well with animals is also a good sign.
7. An excellent way to tell a good lover (which my sister has been using for a long time) is just to imagine the man in front of You making love and experiencing orgasm.
At least You’ll have a lot of fun practicing it on Your acquaintances! Watch the men around You, and at some point they’ll seem transparent to You.
You’ll feel like getting closer with some of them, and others will make You want to flee. So don’t wait too long!
How to tell a good lover from a distance... and taking a closer look!
1. 1. First, You can tell the lover’s rank by the way You’re feeling when he’s around. A sophisticated lover will show and tell You everything so that You’ll end up feeling as if You ALREADY KNEW IT YOURSELF.
A good lover is lavishing praises, and with him You’ll be the best, the most beautiful, gifted, BRILLIANT lover on earth!
And if You’re feeling clumsy, guilty about all the sexual failures of the man – get away as soon as You can! This loser is not for You!
2. The man is familiar with female anatomy. Finding the G-spot is a matter of a second; he can caress it skillfully and is not repelled by female squirting orgasms.
These days anyone who feels like it has seen the video by Steve Piccus "White Tiger Tantra", his student Stephan Hemon "Female Orgasm Mastery", or read "Enlightened Sex" by David Deida.
But if You are not so sure – suggest it to him as if by chance and say: "Honey, see what I found! You must have seen it already – You do everything just as yummily!" When You deliver it through praise, the man will not reject new information.
3. A lot of women are afraid of doing something wrong during sex, or they think they must do certain things. But real, genuine sex is about expressing feelings. And to be able to feel, You need to relax totally and give up control.
That’s why skillful lovers often start with a magic phrase: "Relax, darling, I’LL TAKE CARE OF IT ALL!" It doesn’t mean the woman will be lying motionless and just receiving (although it might work, too!); it’s just that when there’re no ideas of things You must do, motions arise spontaneously from the relaxed and feeling body.
And to turn off control the man massages a woman’s neck, especially the area around the nape of the neck – base of the skull; an experienced man would often place his finger on... a woman’s anus, stimulating it softly.
When the anus is relaxed, all the hip gets relaxed, and the vagina begins to feel more, which means more pleasure and bliss. And when a woman is controlling everything, she tenses the anus unconsciously and doesn’t enjoy herself.
4. A good lover is familiar with such terms as energy and energy centers. The man knows that breasts are an important centre in a female body, her positive pole.
And to awaken the vagina, which is the negative, receptive pole, You should start not from the vagina but, paradoxical as it may sound, from the breasts! Because energy flows from the positive to the negative pole! Caress the breasts for 10-15 minutes, and the vagina opens up and receives a man’s penis in a very different way.
But men often focus on the clitoris, leaving out the breasts. No doubt there is some pleasure, but it is superficial. When a man starts with breasts – a profound pleasure emerges.
An experienced man is familiar with his energy and knows that frequent ejaculation leads to losing his energy. That’s why he is treasuring it and can make sex last long without ejaculating. It doesn’t mean for a month or two, although that is possible, but at least he does not ejaculate for 10 times in one night!
Such a man will get 10 orgasms and ejaculate... just once, if he feels like it. It can be learnt quite easily, and it is described in detail in books by David Deida and Mantek Chia. In two months any man can master this skill.
Keep in mind two points: don’t go too far)) and when the man feels like ejaculating, let him do it with pleasure and stimulate the prostate occasionally for decongestion.
5. A good lover feels himself, both enjoys himself and stays in tune with his partner: looks her in the eyes from time to time, encourages her; when a woman is about to come – he’s breathing in sync with her, saying: "Yes, yes, that feels good", feels pleasure with her, as if absorbing her orgasm, experiences it together with her.
6. The man gives a woman her time. It’s about making pre-foreplay and having sex multiple times. Making love for 5 or six times in one night is way better than having one 30-minute session and then fizzling out. And another important point here – after sex talk about details humorously yet to the point, what You liked, and what needs to be improved. The second time will be better, the third – even more delicious, and by the tenth time, towards the morning, You’ll end up being best lovers ever! And savvy men know that!
7. And the essential thing... Sex is an expression of love, so if You love a man with all Your heart, he will be Your best lover, and it won’t matter what part of You he’s stimulating, what he’s saying, or how he’s relaxing You – everything will flow naturally and be clear. And when Your bodies resonate, and Your hearts join together – You’ll understand THAT’s the kind of love that should be treasured!
With love, Your Maria Shitova
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© 2012 Maria Sñhitova
